The Hardest Thing in the World

Break ups are never easy no matter how amicable they are. 

It doesn't matter whether the other person treated you like dirt or a princess, hung on your every word or ignored you totally. lavished you with gifts or forgot every one your significant days, repeatedly stood you up or arrived early - ending a relationship hurts.

There is always a part of yourself that blames the break up on yourself; you weren't smart enough, you weren't pretty enough, you weren't slim enough, you weren't fun enough, they didn't love you enough, you didn't love them enough, you weren't in the same place or wanted the same things...

Sadly, being deficient in something is the BIG thing though whichever way you look at it.

Walking away from someone that you've loved - still love more often than not - no matter how much you know its for the best, is a hard thing to do.  Possibly the hardest thing to do in the world.